We have been together for more than a year and we love each other. She says she is also in love with another person, but I just want to be with her
My girlfriend and I have been together for more than a year. She told me that she wants a polysexual relationship because she feels something is missing from ours. Every time I say that I don’t want this, she gets upset. I love her and she loves me, but she also loves another person and he loves her back. She said that the only reason she loves this other person is because he reminds her of me. I want it to just be her and me. What should I/we do?
Tell her to make up her mind. She may be genuinely polyamorous, but you clearly are not – so this situation is untenable.